Self Help On-Line Healing
This self healing page that you are currently on is of essences of a
“general healing” type. The essences on this page are listed in alphabetical order
of their names.
For an index of other kinds of essences,
please go to the Self-Healing General Index Page.
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and medical treatment, at the foot of this page, and on our
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Click on the name (or photo) of a flower or stone, to go to a large
photograph of that flower or stone, and then sit for a minute or two,
absorbing the healing energy, for an experience in self-healing......
To encourage the energy of abundance in one's life.
Experiencing a severe sense of lack in one's life.
For people who believe they do not have the ability
to create a rich life full of love.
Holding the truth of prosperity.
Releasing the blocks that prevent us
from totally knowing that we have eternal access
to Divine Abundance.
(Like - there is nothing to want, we already have it.)
Yellow Canna Lily
To help break the energy of the addictive process.
For all process addictions.
(Including gambling, relationship,
Also for the psychological component of addiction
to prescription medicines.
To help the integration and opening
of the thymus chakra.
For people with addictions,
that part of the person will not be open.
ie. This essence supports the healing from addiction.
Small Red Dahlia
It's time to grow up into adult-hood.
An essence to assist in the process of transforming
oneself from the state of
childhood (especially emotional
and spiritual childhood) that all of humanity
is stuck in.
“It is time to finally grow up”.
“Latin temperament”..... to balance and
be in command of one’s temper.
Like the Aires energy, that blows, subsides,
and all is forgotten.
Anger, hidden under Love
To access one's anger.....
hidden beneath the mask of love.
For people who are disconnected from their anger.....
Breaks the fear barrier, and crosses
the bridge to honest ownership.
Apathy and Tiredness
Feeling apathy and gloom (not depression).
Like in a fog - life force starting to close down.
Lifts one up, with a capacity to enjoy..... opening up to life.
The flower essence equivalent of
For bruising, sprains, bleeding, body trauma,
emotional trauma, shock, etc.
Pink Flower Bush
An aura cleanser.
Cleans the human energy field.
Babies Body Integration
Babies Body Integration Stone
For babies who have been born, to help
them integrate into their new physical body.
(Like a higher vibration of the Dr Bach Star
Balances energy on all levels.
Bitterness and Resentment
Feeling bitter about the way other people
are behaving in
one's life. For when the inevitable happens......
do not work out the way one wanted them to.
Indigo Spires Salvia
To create a fertile consciousness for creativity to be birthed.
For people who have blocked their creativity and lost touch with life.
Can also be depressed and/or low self-esteem.
Crassula To strengthen
one’s connection to one’s body,
where one has suffered
a past physical trauma, including assault or abuse.
Lifts old energy closer to the surface.
Aligns people with the earth and with divine energy
(ie. the stars).
Bringing one into divine alignment.
Quartz & Granite
Assists in the integration of spirit and matter.
White Climbing Rose
To ease the spirit into the body.
People with autism, cerebral pausy, rheumatoid arthritis, etc.
The spirit does not fit into the body, largely a physical process.
Helps clearing on a karmic level.
For these people, it is like an energy process.
Feeling bored and in a rut.
When life is feeling stale, this essence brings in
a fresh energy and moves one towards change.
Works at the mental level.
A neutral type of energy, not a big drama issue.
Breaking the Pattern
The “breaking the pattern” essence.
To assist with breaking
out of the old pattern(s),
seeing the illusion of the
the “same old,
same old.....”, laying aside old programming,
and making room for the new to come forth.
To heal a broken heart, bringing happiness
has been none.
A neutral state of indifference.
Not sad or unhappy - just indifferent.
To crack the layer of ice around a wounded heart.
To help build trust in people who have experienced a
broken heart and have withdrawn into an icy sanctuary.
Willow Weed Assists people on to the
next level of their emotional journey with cancer.
To help facilitate emotional release.
To bring light out of chaos,
order out of disorder, love out of darkness.....
warmth where there has been a coldness of heart.
For people who are ready for change.
For victims of
To restore the delicate balance one has
lost, where the care-giver
came from hate instead of love.
Children’s Emotional Mirroring
Elegans Supreme Camellia
To help children in the processing of the emotional
energy that they pick up and mirror back to adults,
especially to adult authority figures that are close to them,
for example parents and teachers.
Assists children to handle the
heavy load of this emotional energy, and to process, transmute
and release it.
The Codependence Essence.
To help the co-dependent person break free
of the cycle of codependence, and to come to
a recognition of her/his own inherent self-worth
as a totally free,
independent person in his own right.
The “rescuer’s” essence. “Good old dependable.”
Always available with a shoulder to cry on.
But who is giving a shoulder to you?
No-one, because you won’t allow yourself
to be vulnerable.
Courage of the Heart
The essence of the courage of the heart.
To help the spiritual warrior transcend all fears
in the journey on the True Path, the path of
one's heart and spirit.
Craving and Desire
To heal “constant craving”.
To help resolve the feelings of
deep desire, where one
just has to have
the desired object
To help in seeing through the illusion of “wanting”
and “needing”, and to
come to the realisation that the intense
feelings of attraction to the desired object (or person) are
nothing to do with reality.
Bird of Paradise
To free creativity (physical expression of)
that has been blocked.
Bringing in the energy of drama,
in a positive way.
Deeply Embedded Stuff
Releasing deeply embedded,
hard to shift stuff.
Small of back, 2nd and 3rd chakra stuff.
To assist with the heavy spadework required for healing.
New Zealand Iris
“I am going to break.”
To move back from the edge.
To strengthen from
feelings of vulnerability and fragility.
Yellow Flower Bush
To lift people out of their depression.
A catalyst essence, to help the healing to take place.
Depressed and Withdrawn
The loner who feels isolated,
into a personal black hole of depression.
To uplift the energy and bring back the dance.
When one is in deep despair,
feeling like one is falling.
This essence will catch one and
lift one out of the hole.
Divine Sexual Love
Healing the perceived split between sexual love
and Divine Love.
A “new energy” essence, to help facilitate the healing
of the perceived split
between God's love and sexual love.
This perceived gulf between the supposed “pure” love of God,
“impure” love between man and woman is actually an
is deeply entrenched in the mass psyche of humanity.
Cream Climbing Rose
Transforming and reconfiguring the human DNA
of the “New Energy Human”,
for the “New Reality” of this
Breaks the energy of marijuana dependence,
even when motivation to change is low.
Also for people who disassociate for any reason.....
To help one to come back into one's body.
Happy Wanderer Rose
To help discarnate souls who have remained
earth-bound, not being able to
move on to the next stage of their evolution.
This essence helps such souls to
resolve whatever it is that is holding
them here, at the emotional level.
Also useful for situations of
where an earth-bound soul
(or souls) has
attached itself to a living person.
Valentine Heart Rose
The illusion of emotional attachment.
To help heal a “broken
heart” where a person
perceives that they have been hurt by love or by loving.
To help such a person to see through the illusion
of what passes for “love”
but is in reality emotional
attachment to the person or thing that is perceived
to be the
cause of the pain.
To assist in the processing and releasing of emotional
Includes emotional energies that have been “picked up”
from other people, or from things like TV
programs, movies, video games, conflict, etc.
Also for animals, for releasing the emotional
energy that they pick up
from humans; and, for children, to assist
them in processing and releasing the emotional energy that they
absorb from adults.
A great essence for Empaths.
Emotional Energy Transmutation
A sea essence, to assist in the transmutation of emotional
energy from this life (not past life).
Stimulates stagnant energy into movement.
Allows one to “wake up and live a new day.”
For people who are feeling as if their energy is ebbing.
The hundred and one “little” things.
The straws that are breaking the camel’s back......
None of them of much importance on their own,
but when they all accumulate,
it feels like there is a huge load on our back.
Expectations and Agendas
For unfulfilled dreams and expectations.
Having an idea,
and feeling let down, because
the other person would not
come to the party.
Brings clarity to the illusion of trying to
cast other people in one's stage show.
To help with the restoration of harmony within family relationships.
To accept the differences, and allow the
other family members to be who they are.
Family Loss Issues
Loss of family.
Loss of the feeling of family.
Loss of parents through death, or moving away.
Also for adoption issues.
For women who still need “Daddy” to look after them,
to be their protector, the nurturer, and the provider.
Frees the heart of the “abandoned daughter”
and allows women to grow up and take responsibility for themselves.
The woman who felt her
father was never there for her...... physically or emotionally.
For boys and men who see their father
once in a blue moon.
Boys whose fathers were working, living apart,
physically absent in some way.
This essence helps heal the wound left in
the male psyche by the absent father.
For fear, especially fears about the future.
Helps to release the “What if?” fear of what
might happen, the trying to
anticipate the future and imagining the worst.
When we learn to let go of this anticipating the
future, this frees up a huge
amount of our
energy to deal with the here and now.
Fear of True Self
Afraid to be alone, afraid of one’s own inner light
and inner fears.
Seeks company to divert one away from one's own truth.
The “party animal”, relationship addict, sex addict.
“Draw me out, and keep me safe from my self.”
Roseraire de l' Hay
To help lift one out of “feeling blue”.
Feeling helpless, lethargic, bored.
To lift out of an unproductive phase,
and move into activity.
Jean Ducher Rose
For all aspects of women's sexual and
reproductive health. Includes the physical,
eg. pms and menopausal symptoms, and
also the emotional, to help a woman to become
and healthy with her
femaleness and her sexuality.
Feminine Aspect Healing
Helps restore energy to the feminine
aspect within humanity.
Heals and balances the wounded feminine
aspect within humans and animals.
A female energy, but not only for women.
For healing the emotional legacy of one’s
ancestral line, inherited through parents,
Passed from generation to generation, along
with the legacy of our genetic
makeup, there is also a legacy of emotional energy and beliefs,
which we take on as being our own.
First Love Rose
To help discarnate souls who have remained
earth-bound, not being able to move on to the
next stage of their evolution.
This essence helps to heal the damage in the etheric
body of such souls.
Also useful for situations of “attached entities”,
where an earth-
bound soul (or souls) has attached
itself to a living person.
For people who did not have the unconditional
love and acceptance of the traditional grandmother
in their life.
We have the need for this grandmother energy in
our consciousness, but
for most of us nowadays
this need is left unfulfilled.
“The tears of regeneration.”
For people who find it difficult
The river of tears that needs to be released,
so that the soul may be freed, and life may
finally be lived.
The essence for grounding.
For assistance with firmly grounding
a person's energy and body into
For guilt and self-blame.
To accept one's part in an experience, without self-blame.
(Especially good for women and children).
Regulating and moderating a “healing crisis”.
Knitting together the experience of the healing crisis, a little like glue.
Enhancing and deepening the heart energy connection between
men and women.
A “new energy” essence, to help facilitate a stronger,
clearer heart connection,
with a more pure energy, based on the energy of true unconditional love.
To help woman and man to move on from the
paradigm based on
duality and karma, into the “new
paradigm of partnership and love.
Heart Love Energy
Grounds the love energy in the heart.
For people who find it difficult to stay in their heart centre,
because they mistrust love.
A very gentle energy - androgynous (neither male nor female).
Hiding behind Mask
To reveal that which is hidden behind the mask.
Bringing the true colours (both light and shadow sides)
out into the light.
“I open up to Wholeness and welcome Truth.”
Whisky Mac Rose
For homesickness and feelings of missing home.
To help people who are intensely feeling out of place, in a strange land,
or among strangers, away from friends and family, etc.
To help one resolve feelings such as these,
and realize that although one may be separated by physical
distance from home, that one always carries the energy and
experience of home in one's heart, no matter how far one may wander.
For hormonal balance, for
women and for men, also for
Helps with all of the factors in the body that
influence hormonal balance, and
also helps facilitate the resolution
of underlying emotional
and mental issues that
are the causative
agents driving the imbalance.
Crystal Silver Lobelia
A flower essence for the Indigo Children.....
for integration and alignment
with their soul purpose.
A flower essence for the Indigo Children.....
To help them to adjust to the changing Earth energies
and return to a state of equilibrium.
The big bumble-bee,
doing what it has to do.
So busy taking from the flower that one forgets to
enjoy the flower. Not having any fun.... joyless.
Learning to work and play at the same time.
Darwins Barberry Berries
Feeling like “I had my chance, and I blew it”.
To get back on the horse after falling off.
defeated..... this essence helps one to get up and try again.
Learning from Past Trauma
“Every cloud has a silver lining”.
The good that comes from the opportunity for
growth and learning from past trauma.
Left Out and Overlooked
The “middle child syndrome”.
Hand-me-downs. Feeling left out or overlooked.
Feeling like one is living in someone else's shadow.
Passed over for promotion, or unnoticed by authority figures.
Living in the Past
Living in the past. “When I was a lad.....”
Anyone who is longing for how it was in the “good old days”.
Wanting to turn the clock back to the past.
To bring the sweetness back into life.
When there has been a broken heart,
from a loss of any type.
Lost in the Crowd
To help find one's uniqueness from within the crowd.
Feeling lost and unable to find one's identity,
everyone else seems more dominant.
The personality type of the (Macho)
“Angry warrior, looking for a fight”.
To soothe and nurture a deep insecurity.....
a “Mother Mary” essence.
For all aspects of men's sexual and
reproductive health. Includes the physical,
eg. impotence and prostate enlargement, and
also the emotional, to help a man to become
and healthy with his
masculinity and his sexuality.
For male impotence (not only sexual),
because of female control.
Severe loss of personal power.
For men who have or had controlling mothers
and/or wives. The male energy
To strengthen the gentle nature within all men,
and remove the blocks
that prevent its integration.
There is a magical and innocent child within all
human beings. The acceptance of this child is
the key to our total healing.
Healing the separation between men and women.
A “new energy” essence, to help transcend the illusion
of the duality paradigm,
as it is perceived in the relationships
between man and woman on planet Earth.
Caught up in an
aberration of thought, mental processes
To streamline the thought process.....
“Moving forward with confidence and ease.”
For people who have been diagnosed
with brain malfunction.
To help open the neural pathways that
have been blocked.
Beet - Bright Lights
Mis-diagnosed by the
medical profession, or wrongly accused of a crime,
and still carrying resentment.
Also for people in a relationship who realise that
the person is not who they thought they were.
For daughters who cannot get close to their mother,
because mother could not get close to her own mother.
Releases the need to keep trying to please mother.
Afraid of love because they never felt it from their mother.
Looking for a man to mother her.
Mourning and Grieving
Feeling empty. Laughter has gone out of one’s life.
To bring back the laughter - feeling jolly again.
A grief essence - bereavement, some time ago.
Negative Energy Release
Dealing with negative energy that one is picking up
from other people.
Helps enhance the body's natural process of processing
and releasing this energy. A very useful essence,
Negative Thought-Forms Dissolve
First Lady Rose
Dissolving negative thought-form
energy that is lodged in the body,
especially in the chakras.
This energy has originated from negative thoughts
that we have had, and from other people.
Contains the same type of powerful
energy as the “Violet Flame”
and the “White Light”, and is
to the energy of sacred sounds, like the “Om”.
To counteract and remove negativity (all forms).
Includes animals with fleas, plants with insect pests,
negative energy, and etheric parasites and entities.
New Ideas & Fresh Energy
Stimulates the free flow of new ideas, regeneration energy.
Works at the mental level. A mindset.
Includes physical body.... rebalancing the body's energy.
“The Pink Lady”, Lady Nada.
Soothes the weary-hearted,
a heart balm.
Gives one the strength to open up to healing.
Out of Place
Feeling like a square peg in a round hole.
Feeling out of place.
Trying unsuccessfully to conform, believing
one should be other than who one truly is.
The essence for parental responsibility issues.
Orange Canna Lily
For the parents of Indigo Children.....
(including ADHD children),
who do not know what to do, because
these children are “streets ahead”.
For those that believe that life needs to be
“picture perfect”, striving constantly to achieve
that level of perfection.
Both for themselves and their expectation of others.
Helps the belief in this illusion fall away.
eg. People in the fashion industry.
Red Frilled Lettuce
This essence brings in the light to
uplift and heal abortion trauma.
For the woman who still carries the guilt
foisted upon her by a fundamentalist society.
To strengthen the knowing of
amidst the sea of adversity.
Healing divisions and separation based on
race, tribe, etc.
“We are one people, one heart, one love.”
An essence to
assist in the healing of the racial,
ethnic and tribal divisions,
for the new millennium.
To help balance the body and the energy field
where one has been exposed to radiation energy.
From the effects of any source of e.m.f. radiation.
Also for people undergoing radiation or chemotherapy
treatment for cancer.
To come clean.
To emerge from self-persecution.
To finally be free of the hooks of “Relationship Illusion”.
Releasing the Past
Red Flowering Gum
Full flowering, against all odds.
Takes one into the fullness of recovery,
on from the feeling of......
“Things will never be the same again”.
To help awaken (emotionally) to the
illusion of romantic love.
Prince Charming turns out to be a myth,
and the carriage has become a pumpkin.
For people who are looking for Prince
(or Princess) Charming to ride into their lives,
sweep them away,
and live happily ever after.
Romantic Perfection Illusion
Looking for the owner of the glass slipper.
Having a picture
of the perfect relationship,
and going around looking for the person to
fit the glass slipper.
Helps shift the belief in one's
unworthiness, and let go of the illusion of the perfect match.
This essence heals physical, emotional,
mental and spiritual damage that an individual
has incurred as a result of the modern schooling
Our second chance at the so-called
There is always a “second chance”, always another opportunity.
Often, the second chance comes in a different form than the first,
but, come to us it always does. Always.
Post-war “Baby-Boomer” consciousness.
The generation who enjoyed the “Good Life”.
This essence is to assist them with change.
We no longer have full employment, subsidies on
basic foodstuffs, nor the security of a secure existence, etc.
Brick & Glass
“Seeing more clearly.”
Brings clarity where there was confusion.
Looking out from the window of the mind
at the situation.
Brings the hazy picture into sharp focus,
replacing illusion with the clarity of The Truth.
Seeing the Big Picture
To give objectivity and the ability to
see the bigger picture.
Includes the physical symptoms of failing
eyesight, as well as the psychological issue
of not wanting to see the bigger picture.
Self Acceptance Stone
The essence of totally accepting one's self.....
In the totality of whatever one is in the present moment.
Wanting to be noticed, to be discovered.
Feeling “I'm special, why can anyone not see this?”
To unlock the door, and allow one to feel the
Wanting to be discovered by others, but need
to discover one's own talents.
The “rose amongst the thorns”.
Feeling out of place, and not knowing what to do about it.
For non-acceptance of self.
“I'm no good, not wanted, useless.”
Gives a nurturing parent energy to the child within
who grew up in an
emotionally barren wasteland.
Self-Worth in Traditional Roles
For the modern woman who doesn't think she
is as good as the women from her mother's and
In her mothering, hostessing, housekeeping, etc.
Also for men
who feel inferior in their male role.....
fathering, providing, etc,
that the “traditional” father used to do.
For healing all levels of sexual abuse, including
For women and for men.
To help restore one's ability to stand proud and tall, look the world in the eye, and smile.
Sexual Stereotyped Roles
To help break through rigid sexual stereotyping
on all levels.
The man who has to have a pretty woman.
The stud mentality.
The woman who thinks she has be always available.
To eliminate toxic sexual attitudes that have
arisen since the sexually repressed influence
of the Victorian era.
The extremes of the continuum
repressed sexuality to sexual perversion.
Helping one to reclaim one's shadow-self.
Our True Self includes the “All That Is”,
and “all” means
include the dark, and all the
many shades of grey, along with the light.
Shamanic Journeying & Soul-Retrieval
Gloxinia and Begonia
Assistance in the “sacred journeying”, where the
shaman goes out and brings back parts of the soul that
had split off as the result of trauma experiences.
Standing tall in the new land
(or state of consciousness).
supporting and balancing the shift.
For refugees, immigrants, etc.,
moving (or having moved) to a new land.
Or, anyone undergoing a large shift in
consciousness (ie. a paradigm shift)
Shyness and Hiding
Dark Pink Rose
No-one knows the real me.
Sitting in a darkened room,
afraid to open the door....
“I know who I am, but no-one
Helps to open up and trust,
allowing people to see who one really is.
To free the hold that nicotine has on the addicted smoker
Wanting to give up smoking, but feeling overwhelmed
by the hold of nicotine.
To help with all types of
“social conventions” issues.
For people who live within a straight-jacket of
“What would the neighbors think?”
Also for the other extreme of people who indulge
in foolish behavior to demonstrate their freedom.
Spring is Here
Pink Blossom To help lift people
out of depression.
The fullness of spring.....
Spring can happen at any time.
Joyousness has no special season.
You may have a summer’s day in any moment.
Gazania “The Dancing Gazelle”.
Lifts the spirits and frees the heart to dance lightly,
like the gazelle.... prancing and jumping.
Frees one to leap free of the beliefs of the past.
Subdued & Uncertain
Not sure where to go next.....
Fallen into a slump. To chase away the grey clouds.....
and the sun lights your way. (Not as heavy as depression.)
Violet & Yellow Salvia
For all people who are feeling suicidal.
To strengthen their life-force, and bring
them gently back from Heaven.
Not everyone who attempts suicide wants to die.
Potato Vine The hand behind the back.....
giving strength and support when the
road feels rocky and
the legs feel unsteady.
Survival in Adversity
To help one survive, through the
bleakest of situations. Just
like this flower survives in very
poor soil with very little water.
“Before enlightenment, chop wood,
Dark Pink/Violet Bush
To help with the assimilation of sugar in one's diet, and.....
To help in the assimilation of sweetness in one's life;
where a person works hard at denying oneself happiness.
When one feels like one is losing one's
grip on life, feeling like
withdrawing from life.
To move a person through their repeated sense
of failure in life - get back
on the horse
(the horse is being dragged - not walking.)
Tiredness and Fatigue
For tiredness and fatigue of all types, from all causes.
Includes everyday acute weariness, chronic fatigue
syndrome, and also for insomnia.
Getting off the never-ending treadmill.....
Releasing the compulsive/obsessive
chasing after the trappings of “success”.
For people who are jaded, tired, over-worked,
and burnt out.
This essence helps one to
break through the illusion of chasing
after the unfulfillable dream.
For women who are
busy, busy, busy, fussing around,
cannot settle down.
Fear of being still, and of being with themselves.
People of the war generation who have
having shut down, being unable to process
the wartime trauma.
Includes civilians affected by the war experience,
affected by any form of warfare-induced post-traumatic stress.
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