New Millennium Flower Essences - Self Help and Self Healing.

Self Help On-Line Healing

This self healing page that you are currently on is of essences of a “general healing” type. The essences on this page are listed in alphabetical order of their names.

For an index of other kinds of essences, please go to the Self-Healing General Index Page.

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Click on the name (or photo) of a flower or stone, to go to a large photograph of that flower or stone, and then sit for a minute or two, absorbing the healing energy, for an experience in self-healing......

Click to have a healing with Plum blossom, the abundance flower essence. Abundance    Plum    To encourage the energy of abundance in one's life. Experiencing a severe sense of lack in one's life. For people who believe they do not have the ability to create a rich life full of love.

Click to have a healing with Cabbage Tree, the essence of abundance. Abundance    Cabbage Tree    Holding the truth of prosperity. Releasing the blocks that prevent us from totally knowing that we have eternal access to Divine Abundance. (Like - there is nothing to want, we already have it.)

Click to have a healing with Yellow Canna Lily, the essence for help with addictions. Addictions    Yellow Canna Lily  To help break the energy of the addictive process. For all process addictions. (Including gambling, relationship, sex, workaholism). Also for the psychological component of addiction to prescription medicines.

Click to have a healing with Pink Manuka, supporting the healing from addiction. Addiction Healing    Pink Manuka
To help the integration and opening of the thymus chakra.
For people with addictions, that part of the person will not be open.   ie. This essence supports the healing from addiction.

Click to have a healing with Small Red Dahlia - Time to grow up into maturity. Adult-hood    Small Red Dahlia
It's time to grow up into adult-hood. An essence to assist in the process of transforming oneself from the state of childhood (especially emotional and spiritual childhood) that all of humanity is stuck in.   “It is time to finally grow up”.

Click to have a healing with Spiraea japonica, "Latin temperament". Anger    Spiraea japonica
“Latin temperament”..... to balance and be in command of one’s temper. Like the Aires energy, that blows, subsides,
and all is forgotten.

Click to have a healing with Lacecap Hydrangea, anger hidden under the mask of love. Anger, hidden under Love    Lacecap Hydrangea
To access one's anger..... hidden beneath the mask of love.
For people who are disconnected from their anger.....
Breaks the fear barrier, and crosses the bridge to honest ownership.

Click to have a healing with Helichrysum, the essence for opening up to life. Apathy and Tiredness    Helichrysum
Feeling apathy and gloom (not depression).
Like in a fog  -  life force starting to close down.
Lifts one up, with a capacity to enjoy..... opening up to life.

Click to have a healing with Marguerite Daisy, the "Arnica" of flower essences. Arnica    Marguerite Daisy
The flower essence equivalent of homoeopathic Arnica.
For bruising, sprains, bleeding, body trauma, emotional trauma, shock, etc.

Click to have a healing with Pink Flower Bush, the aura cleanser essence. Aura Cleansing    Pink Flower Bush
An aura cleanser. Cleans the human energy field.

Click to have a healing with Babies Body Integration essence. Babies Body Integration
Babies Body Integration Stone
  For babies who have been born, to help them integrate into their new physical body. (Like a higher vibration of the Dr Bach Star of Bethlehem.)

Click to have a healing with White Aster, "the essence of balance". Balance    White Aster
A balancer. Balances energy on all levels.

Click to have a healing with Lilac Oxalis, the essence for bitterness and resentment. Bitterness and Resentment    Lilac Oxalis
Feeling bitter about the way other people are behaving in
one's life.  For when the inevitable happens......  and things
do not work out the way one wanted them to.

Click to have a healing with Indigo Spires Salvia - unleashing creativity and joy. Blocked Creativity    Indigo Spires Salvia
To create a fertile consciousness for creativity to be birthed. For people who have blocked their creativity and lost touch with life.   Can also be depressed and/or low self-esteem.

Click to have a healing with Crassula, the essence of Body Anchoring. Body Anchoring    Crassula    To strengthen
one’s connection to one’s body, where one has suffered
a past physical trauma, including assault or abuse.

Click to have a healing with Red Salvia, for staying connected in one's body. Body Connection    Red Salvia
For having both feet firmly on the ground, rather than
jumping out of one's body.

Click to have a healing with Pounamu, for aligning one's energy with the earth and the stars. Body Energy    Pounamu
Lifts old energy closer to the surface.
Aligns people with the earth and with divine energy
(ie. the stars).  Bringing one into divine alignment.

Click to have a healing with Quartz & Granite, integrating spirit and matter. Body/Soul Integration    Quartz & Granite
Assists in the integration of spirit and matter.
Mind/body/spirit alignment.

Click to have a healing with White Climbing Rose - easing the spirit into the body. Body/Spirit Fit    White Climbing Rose
To ease the spirit into the body. People with autism, cerebral pausy, rheumatoid arthritis, etc. The spirit does not fit into the body, largely a physical process. Helps clearing on a karmic level.
For these people, it is like an energy process.

Click to have a healing with Parsnip - bored and in a rut. Boredom    Parsnip     Feeling bored and in a rut.
When life is feeling stale, this essence brings in a fresh energy and moves one towards change. Works at the mental level.
A neutral type of energy, not a big drama issue.

Click to have a healing with Yellow and Orange Rose, for breaking the pattern. Breaking the Pattern    Yellow/Orange Rose
The “breaking the pattern” essence. To assist with breaking
out of the old pattern(s), seeing the illusion of the old habits,
the “same old, same old.....”, laying aside old programming,
and making room for the new to come forth.

Click to have a healing with Primula obconica, for healing the indifferent heart. Broken Heart    Primula obconica
To heal a broken heart, bringing happiness where there
has been none.   A neutral state of indifference.
Not sad or unhappy - just indifferent.

Click to have a healing with Snowball Daisy, cracking the layer of ice around a wounded heart. Broken Heart    Snowball Daisy
To crack the layer of ice around a wounded heart.
To help build trust in people who have experienced a
broken heart and have withdrawn into an icy sanctuary.

Click to have a healing with Willow Weed, the essence of support for cancer sufferers. Cancer    Willow Weed    Assists people on to the
next level of their emotional journey with cancer.
To help facilitate emotional release.

Click to have a healing with Wild Turnip, embracing the warm winds of change. Change    Wild Turnip
To bring light out of chaos, order out of disorder, love out of darkness..... warmth where there has been a coldness of heart. For people who are ready for change.

Click to have a healing with Cosmos, for recovery from childhood abuse. Childhood Abuse    Cosmos    For victims of
childhood abuse. To restore the delicate balance one has
lost, where the care-giver came from hate instead of love.

Click to have a healing with Elegans Supreme Camellia, the flower essence for children's emotional mirroring. Children’s Emotional Mirroring
Elegans Supreme Camellia
  To help children in the processing of the emotional energy that they pick up and mirror back to adults, especially to adult authority figures that are close to them,
for example parents and teachers. Assists children to handle the
heavy load of this emotional energy, and to process, transmute
and release it.

Click to have a healing with Parahebe, the co-dependency essence. Co-dependency    Parahebe
The Codependence Essence. To help the co-dependent person break free of the cycle of codependence, and to come to a recognition of her/his own inherent self-worth as a totally free,
independent person in his own right.

Click to have a healing with Broom, the "rescuer's" essence. Co-dependency (Rescuer)    Broom
The “rescuer’s” essence. “Good old dependable.” Always available with a shoulder to cry on.   But who is giving a shoulder to you? No-one, because you won’t allow yourself
to be vulnerable.

Click to have a healing with Bloodstone, the courage of the heart of the spiritual warrior. Courage of the Heart     Bloodstone
The essence of the courage of the heart. To help the spiritual warrior transcend all fears in the journey on the True Path, the path of one's heart and spirit.

Click to have a healing with Pink Scabious, the "constant craving" essence. Craving and Desire     Scabious
To heal “constant craving”. To help resolve the feelings of
deep desire, where one just has to have the desired object
(or person). To help in seeing through the illusion of “wanting”
and “needing”, and to come to the realisation that the intense
feelings of attraction to the desired object (or person) are
nothing to do with reality.

Click to have a healing with Bird of Paradise, the essence of Dramatic Creativity. Creativity    Bird of Paradise    “Flamboyant”.
To free creativity (physical expression of) that has been blocked. Bringing in the energy of drama, in a positive way.

Click to have a healing with Pink Cyclamen. Releasing deeply embedded, small of back stuff. Deeply Embedded Stuff    Pink Cyclamen
Releasing deeply embedded, hard to shift stuff. Small of back, 2nd and 3rd chakra stuff.   To assist with the heavy spadework required for healing.

Click to have a healing with N.Z. Iris. Moving back from the edge. “Delicate”    New Zealand Iris
“Delicate.”   “I am going to break.”
To move back from the edge. To strengthen from
feelings of vulnerability and fragility.

Click to have a healing with Yellow Flower Bush, the essence for depression. Depression    Yellow Flower Bush
To lift people out of their depression.
A catalyst essence, to help the healing to take place.

Click to have a healing with Buddleia, for withdrawing into a personal black hole. Depressed and Withdrawn    Buddleia
The loner who feels isolated, and withdraws into a personal black hole of depression. To uplift the energy and bring back the dance.

Click to have a healing with ToeToe, lifting one out of the depths of despair. Despair    ToeToe
When one is in deep despair, feeling like one is falling.
This essence will catch one and lift one out of the hole.

Click to have a healing with Cream Rose - unifying divine love and sexual love. Divine Sexual Love    Cream Rose
Healing the perceived split between sexual love and Divine Love. A “new energy” essence, to help facilitate the healing of the perceived split between God's love and sexual love. This perceived gulf between the supposed “pure” love of God, and the
“impure” love between man and woman is actually an illusion that
is deeply entrenched in the mass psyche of humanity.

Click to go to the DNA Transformation Super-Essence. DNA Transformation    Cream Climbing Rose
Transforming and reconfiguring the human DNA of the “New Energy Human”, for the “New Reality” of this New Millennium.

Click to have a healing with Bush Lawyer, the essence for kicking the habit. Drug Addiction    Bush Lawyer
Breaks the energy of marijuana dependence, even when motivation to change is low. Also for people who disassociate for any reason..... To help one to come back into one's body.

Click to go to Happy Wanderer rose - healing earth-bound souls. Earth-Bound Spirits    Happy Wanderer Rose
To help discarnate souls who have remained earth-bound, not being able to move on to the next stage of their evolution. This essence helps such souls to resolve whatever it is that is holding
them here, at the emotional level. Also useful for situations of
“attached entities”, where an earth-bound soul (or souls) has
attached itself to a living person.

Click to have a healing with Valentine Heart rose - releasing emotional attachment. Emotional Attachment    Valentine Heart Rose
The illusion of emotional attachment. To help heal a “broken heart” where a person perceives that they have been hurt by love or by loving. To help such a person to see through the illusion of what passes for “love” but is in reality emotional
attachment to the person or thing that is perceived to be the
cause of the pain.

Click to have a healing with Pink Dahlia - for emotional healing. Emotional Healing    Pink Dahlia
To assist in the processing and releasing of emotional energies. Includes emotional energies that have been “picked up” from other people, or from things like TV programs, movies, video games, conflict, etc. Also for animals, for releasing the emotional
energy that they pick up from humans; and, for children, to assist
them in processing and releasing the emotional energy that they
absorb from adults.  A great essence for Empaths.

Click to have a healing with Emotional Energy Transmutation. Emotional Trauma Emotional Energy Transmutation A sea essence, to assist in the transmutation of emotional energy from this life (not past life).

Click to have a healing with Nasturtium, energy ebbing away. Energy Lack    Nasturtium
Stimulates stagnant energy into movement.
Allows one to “wake up and live a new day.”
For people who are feeling as if their energy is ebbing.

Click to have a healing with Brush Wattle, healing the pain of ethnic cleansing. Ethnic Cleansing    Brush Wattle
For victims of ethnic cleansing and the Holocaust. To help transmute the pain of these events in the hearts of people who remember, and in the cellular memories of people reborn.
To raise this energy and eradicate it for ever.

Click to have a healing with Everyday Challenges. Everyday Challenges    Everyday Challenges
The hundred and one “little” things. The straws that are breaking the camel’s back...... None of them of much importance on their own, but when they all accumulate,
it feels like there is a huge load on our back.

Click to have a healing with Mahoe, for unfulfilled expectations. Expectations and Agendas    Mahoe
For unfulfilled dreams and expectations.  Having an idea,
and feeling let down, because the other person would not
come to the party. Brings clarity to the illusion of trying to
cast other people in one's stage show.

Click to have a healing with Pink Lavatera, the essence for family relationships. Family Relationships    Pink Lavatera
To help with the restoration of harmony within family relationships. To accept the differences, and allow the
other family members to be who they are.

Click to have a healing with Clematis Montana, the essence for loss of family. Family Loss Issues    Clematis montana
Loss of family.  Loss of the feeling of family.
Loss of parents through death, or moving away.
Also for adoption issues.

Click to have a healing with Broccoli, the "abandoned daughter". Father/Daughter    Broccoli
For women who still need “Daddy” to look after them, to be their protector, the nurturer, and the provider. Frees the heart of the “abandoned daughter” and allows women to grow up and take responsibility for themselves. The woman who felt her
father was never there for her...... physically or emotionally.

Click to have a healing with Bog Sage, healing the absent father syndrome. Father/Son    Bog Sage
For boys and men who see their father once in a blue moon. Boys whose fathers were working, living apart, physically absent in some way. This essence helps heal the wound left in
the male psyche by the absent father.

Click to have a healing with Flax, for fear of the future. Fear    Flax
For fear, especially fears about the future. Helps to release the “What if?” fear of what might happen, the trying to anticipate the future and imagining the worst. When we learn to let go of this anticipating the future, this frees up a huge amount of our
energy to deal with the here and now.

Click to have a healing with Pelargonium, fear of being with one's self. Fear of True Self    Pelargonium
Afraid to be alone, afraid of one’s own inner light and inner fears. Seeks company to divert one away from one's own truth. The “party animal”, relationship addict, sex addict.
“Draw me out, and keep me safe from my self.”

Click to have a healing with Roseraire de l' Hay, to lift one out of lethargy. Feeling Flat    Roseraire de l' Hay
To help lift one out of “feeling blue”.
Feeling helpless, lethargic, bored.
To lift out of an unproductive phase, and move into activity.

Click to have a healing with Jean Ducher Rose, for women's sexual and reproductive health. Female Health    Jean Ducher Rose
For all aspects of women's sexual and reproductive health. Includes the physical, eg. pms and menopausal symptoms, and also the emotional, to help a woman to become more balanced
and healthy with her femaleness and her sexuality.

Click to have a healing with Cockle, healing the wounded feminine. Feminine Aspect Healing    Cockle
Helps restore energy to the feminine aspect within humanity. Heals and balances the wounded feminine aspect within humans and animals. A female energy, but not only for women.

Click to have a healing with Piripiri, the essence of forgiveness. Forgiveness    Piripiri    The forgiveness essence.
To allow the energy of forgiveness to enter our hearts and dissolve the barbs that we have placed there and projected
onto others.

Click to have a healing with Ostrich Foot, healing gender-baser wounds. Gender Wars    Ostrich Foot     Helping heal the hurts
carried by men and women since the beginning of time (gender based).   Men hurting women, and women hurting men.
The pain of words that pierce the body like small arrows,
leaving the fabric of humanity scarred and afraid.

Click to have a healing with Bougainvillea, healing the generational legacy. Generational Issues    Bougainvillea
For healing the emotional legacy of one’s ancestral line, inherited through parents, grandparents, etc. Passed from generation to generation, along with the legacy of our genetic
makeup, there is also a legacy of emotional energy and beliefs,
which we take on as being our own.

Click to go to First Love rose - healing earth-bound souls. Ghosts Healing    First Love Rose
To help discarnate souls who have remained earth-bound, not being able to move on to the next stage of their evolution. This essence helps to heal the damage in the etheric body of such souls.
Also useful for situations of  “attached entities”, where an earth-
bound soul (or souls) has attached itself to a living person.

Click to have a healing with Blackberry, the grandmother's unconditional love. Grandmother Nurturing    Blackberry
For people who did not have the unconditional love and acceptance of the traditional grandmother in their life. We have the need for this grandmother energy in our consciousness, but
for most of us nowadays this need is left unfulfilled.

Click to have a healing with Water Celery, the "tears of regeneration". Grief Blockage    Water Celery
“The tears of regeneration.”   For people who find it difficult
to cry. The river of tears that needs to be released, so that the soul may be freed, and life may finally be lived.

Click to have a healing with Smoky Quartz, the grounding essence. Grounding    Smoky Quartz
The essence for grounding.   For assistance with firmly grounding a person's energy and body into Mother Earth.

Click to have a healing with Strawberry Cactus, the essence for guilt. Guilt    Strawberry Cactus   For guilt and self-blame.
To accept one's part in an experience, without self-blame.
(Especially good for women and children).

Click to have a healing with Pink Rose, regulating the healing crisis. Healing Crisis    Pink Rose
Regulating and moderating a “healing crisis”. Knitting together the experience of the healing crisis, a little like glue.

Click to have a healing with Pink Rose - moving into the "new energy" paradigm. Heart Connection    Pink Rose
Enhancing and deepening the heart energy connection between men and women. A “new energy” essence, to help facilitate a stronger, clearer heart connection, with a more pure energy, based on the energy of true unconditional love.
To help woman and man to move on from the “old energy”
paradigm based on duality and karma, into the “new energy”
paradigm of partnership and love.

Click to have a healing with Pink Pumice, grounding the love energy in the heart. Heart Love Energy    Pink Pumice
Grounds the love energy in the heart. For people who find it difficult to stay in their heart centre, because they mistrust love. A very gentle energy - androgynous (neither male nor female).

Click to have a healing with Hidden Talents. Hidden Talents    Hidden Talents
To help a person bring out the many “hidden talents” and
latent abilities that they may not even suspect that they have.

Click to have a healing with Veilchenblau, bringing out one's true colors. Hiding behind Mask    Veilchenblau Rose
To reveal that which is hidden behind the mask. Bringing the true colours (both light and shadow sides) out into the light.
“I open up to Wholeness and welcome Truth.”

Click to have a healing with Whisky Mac Rose, for homesickness Homesickness    Whisky Mac Rose
For homesickness and feelings of missing home. To help people who are intensely feeling out of place, in a strange land, or among strangers, away from friends and family, etc. To help one resolve feelings such as these, and realize that although one may be separated by physical distance from home, that one always carries the energy and experience of home in one's heart, no matter how far one may wander.

Click to have a healing with Red Camellia, for hormonal balance Hormonal Balance    Red Camellia
For hormonal balance, for women and for men, also for all mammals.  Helps with all of the factors in the body that influence hormonal balance, and also helps facilitate the resolution
of underlying emotional and mental issues that are the causative
agents driving the imbalance.

Click to have a healing with Crystal Silver Lobelia, for helping the Indigo Children. Indigo Children    Crystal Silver Lobelia
A flower essence for the Indigo Children.....
for integration and alignment with their soul purpose.

Click to have a healing with Red Sunflower, for helping the Indigo Children. Indigo Children    Red Sunflower
A flower essence for the Indigo Children.....
To help them to adjust to the changing Earth energies
and return to a state of equilibrium.

Click to have a healing with Red Clover, for learning to work and play at the same time. Joylessness    Red Clover    The big bumble-bee,
doing what it has to do.  So busy taking from the flower that one forgets to enjoy the flower.  Not having any fun.... joyless.
Learning to work and play at the same time.

Click to have a healing with Darwins Barberry, for keeping on trying. Keeping On    Darwins Barberry Berries
Feeling like “I had my chance, and I blew it”.
To get back on the horse after falling off.  Feeling
defeated..... this essence helps one to get up and try again.

Click to have a healing with Statice, with every cloud having a silver lining. Learning from Past Trauma    Statice
“Every cloud has a silver lining”.
The good that comes from the opportunity for
growth and learning from past trauma.

Click to have a healing with Lotus, feeling left out, overlooked and neglected. Left Out and Overlooked    Lotus
The “middle child syndrome”.
Hand-me-downs.  Feeling left out or overlooked.
Feeling like one is living in someone else's shadow.
Passed over for promotion, or unnoticed by authority figures.

Click to have a healing with Spur Valerian, the essence for letting go and moving on. Letting Go    Spur Valerian
Letting go.....   The sense of loss perceived when a relationship has ended, and one is still believing the outcome should have been different.

Click to have a healing with Tomato, the essence for living in the past. Living in the Past    Tomato
Living in the past.  “When I was a lad.....”
Anyone who is longing for how it was in the “good old days”.
Wanting to turn the clock back to the past.

Click to have a healing with Coriander, the essence for recovery from a loss. Loss    Coriander   To bring the sweetness back into life. When there has been a broken heart, from a loss of any type.

Click to have a healing with Fescue Grass, for finding one's own identity. Lost in the Crowd    Fescue Grass
To help find one's uniqueness from within the crowd.
Feeling lost and unable to find one's identity,
everyone else seems more dominant.

Click to have a healing with Wallflower, the Macho Warrior spoiling for a fight. Macho Warrior    Variegated Wallflower
The personality type of the (Macho) “Angry warrior, looking for a fight”. To soothe and nurture a deep insecurity.....
a “Mother Mary” essence.

Click to have a healing with Orange Begonia, for men's sexual and reproductive health. Male Health    Orange Begonia
For all aspects of men's sexual and reproductive health. Includes the physical, eg. impotence and prostate enlargement, and also the emotional, to help a man to become more balanced and healthy with his masculinity and his sexuality.

Click to have a healing with Poke Weed - male impotence from female control. Male Impotence    Poke Weed
For male impotence (not only sexual), because of female control. Severe loss of personal power. For men who have or had controlling mothers and/or wives. The male energy
becomes impotent.

Click to have a healing with Korokio - unlocking the gentle nature within all men. Male Issues    Korokio
To strengthen the gentle nature within all men, and remove the blocks that prevent its integration. There is a magical and innocent child within all human beings. The acceptance of this child is the key to our total healing.

Click to have a healing with Elina Rose - healing the separation between woman and man. Man-Woman Healing    Elina Rose
Healing the separation between men and women.
A “new energy” essence, to help transcend the illusion of the duality paradigm, as it is perceived in the relationships between man and woman on planet Earth.

Click to have a healing with Olearia - for aberration of thought. Mental Dysfunction    Olearia
Caught up in an aberration of thought, mental processes overworked.  To streamline the thought process.....
“Moving forward with confidence and ease.”

Click to have a healing with Nikau Palm - for brain malfunction. Mental Illness    Nikau Palm
For people who have been diagnosed with brain malfunction. To help open the neural pathways that have been blocked.

Click to have a healing with Bright Lights Beet, "mistaken identity". Mistaken Identity    Beet - Bright Lights
Mis-diagnosed by the medical profession, or wrongly accused of a crime, and still carrying resentment.   Also for people in a relationship who realise that the person is not who they thought they were.

Click to have a healing with Pink Camellia - releasing the need to always please mother. Mother-Daughter Issues    Pink Camellia
For daughters who cannot get close to their mother, because mother could not get close to her own mother. Releases the need to keep trying to please mother. Afraid of love because they never felt it from their mother. Looking for a man to mother her.

Click to have a healing with Canadian Fleabane - Bringing back the laughter and joy. Mourning and Grieving    Canadian Fleabane
Feeling empty. Laughter has gone out of one’s life. To bring back the laughter - feeling jolly again. A grief essence - bereavement, some time ago.

Click to have a healing with Rhubarb - releasing negative energy. Negative Energy Release    Rhubarb
Dealing with negative energy that one is picking up from other people. Helps enhance the body's natural process of processing and releasing this energy.  A very useful essence, especially for

Click to have a healing with First Lady Rose - dissolving negative thought-forms. Negative Thought-Forms Dissolve   
First Lady Rose
   Dissolving negative thought-form energy that is lodged in the body, especially in the chakras. This energy has originated from negative thoughts that we have had, and from other people. Contains the same type of powerful
energy as the “Violet Flame” and the “White Light”, and is similar
to the energy of sacred sounds, like the “Om”.

Click to have a healing with Wild Fennel, dealing with negativity. Negativity    Wild Fennel
To counteract and remove negativity (all forms).
Includes animals with fleas, plants with insect pests, negative energy, and etheric parasites and entities.

Click to have a healing with Parsley, the essence of regeneration. New Ideas & Fresh Energy    Parsley
Stimulates the free flow of new ideas, regeneration energy.
Works at the mental level.  A mindset.
Includes physical body.... rebalancing the body's energy.

Click to have a healing with Pink Verbena, the Pink Lady. Nurturing    Pink Verbena
“The Pink Lady”,   Lady Nada.  Soothes the weary-hearted,
a heart balm.  Gives one the strength to open up to healing.

Click to have a healing with Pinus Radiata, the square peg in the round hole. Out of Place    Pinus radiata
Feeling like a square peg in a round hole.
Feeling out of place. Trying unsuccessfully to conform, believing one should be other than who one truly is.

Click to have a healing with White Clover essence, for parental responsibilities. Parental Responsibilities    White Clover
The essence for parental responsibility issues.

Click to have a healing with Orange Canna Lily, the essence for parent's issues. Parent’s Issues    Orange Canna Lily
For the parents of Indigo Children.....
(including ADHD children), who do not know what to do, because these children are “streets ahead”.

Click to have a healing with Convovulus muritanicus, always the bridesmaid. Passed Over    Convovulus muritanicus
Always the bridesmaid, never the bride. The wallflower.
To resolve the feeling of being passed over. To realise the greatest relationship in the world is with oneself. Often specific
to wanting to be in a committed relationship (but not about sex).

Click to have a healing with Picture Perfect, releasing one's obsession with perfection. Perfectionism    Picture Perfect
For those that believe that life needs to be “picture perfect”, striving constantly to achieve that level of perfection. Both for themselves and their expectation of others. Helps the belief in this illusion fall away. eg. People in the fashion industry.

Click to have a healing with Red Frilled Lettuce, healing abortion trauma. Pregnancy Termination    Red Frilled Lettuce
This essence brings in the light to uplift and heal abortion trauma. For the woman who still carries the guilt foisted upon her by a fundamentalist society. To strengthen the knowing of
“right choice” amidst the sea of adversity.

Click to have a healing with Solanum aviculare, healing racial divisions. Racial Issues    Solanum aviculare
Healing divisions and separation based on race, tribe, etc.
“We are one people, one heart, one love.” An essence to
assist in the healing of the racial, ethnic and tribal divisions,
for the new millennium.

Click to have a healing with Peace Lily, for recovery from the effects of radiation. Radiation Recovery    Peace Lily    To help balance the body and the energy field where one has been exposed to radiation energy. From the effects of any source of e.m.f. radiation. Also for people undergoing radiation or chemotherapy
treatment for cancer.

Click to have a healing with Wandering Jew, the essence for relationship illusion. Relationship Illusion    Wandering Jew
To come clean.  To emerge from self-persecution.
To finally be free of the hooks of “Relationship Illusion”.

Click to have a healing with Red Flowering Gum. Full flowering, against all odds. Releasing the Past    Red Flowering Gum
Full flowering, against all odds. Takes one into the fullness of recovery, on from the feeling of...... “Things will never be the same again”.

Click to have a healing with Allysum, to awaken from the spell of romantic illusion. Romantic Illusion    Allysum  (white)
To help awaken (emotionally) to the illusion of romantic love. Prince Charming turns out to be a myth, and the carriage has become a pumpkin. For people who are looking for Prince (or Princess) Charming to ride into their lives, sweep them away,
and live happily ever after.

Click to have a healing with Naked Lady, the illusion of the "perfect" relationship. Romantic Perfection Illusion    Naked Lady
Looking for the owner of the glass slipper. Having a picture
of the perfect relationship, and going around looking for the person to fit the glass slipper. Helps shift the belief in one's
unworthiness, and let go of the illusion of the perfect match.

Click to have a healing with Pohue, healing the legacy from our schooling. Schooling Trauma    Pohue
This essence heals physical, emotional, mental and spiritual damage that an individual has incurred as a result of the modern schooling system.

Click to have a healing with Second Chance. Second Chance    Second Chance
Our second chance at the so-called “missed opportunity”. There is always a “second chance”, always another opportunity. Often, the second chance comes in a different form than the first, but, come to us it always does.  Always.

Click to have a healing with Zucchini, loss of the "good life". Security Loss    Zucchini
Post-war “Baby-Boomer” consciousness. The generation who enjoyed the “Good Life”. This essence is to assist them with change. We no longer have full employment, subsidies on basic foodstuffs, nor the security of a secure existence, etc.

Click to have a healing with Brick and Glass, seeing more clearly. Seeing Clearly     Brick & Glass
“Seeing more clearly.”   Brings clarity where there was confusion. Looking out from the window of the mind at the situation. Brings the hazy picture into sharp focus, replacing illusion with the clarity of The Truth.

Click to have a healing with Eagles Eye, seeing the big picture. Seeing the Big Picture    Eagles Eye
To give objectivity and the ability to see the bigger picture. Includes the physical symptoms of failing eyesight, as well as the psychological issue of not wanting to see the bigger picture.

Click to have a healing with the Self Acceptance stone. Self-Acceptance    Self Acceptance Stone
The essence of totally accepting one's self.....
In the totality of whatever one is in the present moment.

Click to have a healing with Violet Clematis, discovering and appreciating one's talents. Self-Appreciation    Violet Clematis
Wanting to be noticed, to be discovered. Feeling “I'm special, why can anyone not see this?” To unlock the door, and allow one to feel the “specialness” within. Wanting to be discovered by others, but need to discover one's own talents.

Click to have a healing with Scotch Thistle, the rose amongst the thorns. Self-Love    Scotch Thistle
The “rose amongst the thorns”.
Feeling out of place, and not knowing what to do about it.

Click to have a healing with Gorse, to heal the emotionally barren wasteland. Self-Worth    Gorse    For non-acceptance of self.
“I'm no good, not wanted, useless.”   Gives a nurturing parent energy to the child within who grew up in an emotionally barren wasteland.

Click to have a healing with Aunt Daisy Essence. Self-Worth in Traditional Roles    Aunt Daisy
For the modern woman who doesn't think she is as good as the women from her mother's and grandmother's generation.
In her mothering, hostessing, housekeeping, etc. Also for men
who feel inferior in their male role..... fathering, providing, etc,
that the “traditional” father used to do.

Click to have a healing with Iceberg Rose, restoring one's sense of purity. Sexual Abuse    Iceberg Rose
For healing all levels of sexual abuse, including sexual harassment.
For women and for men. To help restore one's ability to stand proud and tall, look the world in the eye, and smile.

Click to have a healing with Marjoram, healing sexual programmed roles. Sexual Stereotyped Roles    Marjoram
To help break through rigid sexual stereotyping on all levels. The man who has to have a pretty woman. The stud mentality. The woman who thinks she has be always available.

Click to have a healing with Lantana, healing toxic sexuality of all types. Sexual Toxicity    Lantana
To eliminate toxic sexual attitudes that have arisen since the sexually repressed influence of the Victorian era. Obsessive/compulsive energy. The extremes of the continuum
range from repressed sexuality to sexual perversion.

Click to have a healing with Milkweed, for reclaiming one's shadow-self. Shadow-Self Integration    Milkweed
Helping one to reclaim one's shadow-self.
Our True Self includes the “All That Is”, and “all” means
just that..... all, which must include the dark, and all the
many shades of grey, along with the light.

Click to go to the Shamanic Journeying and Soul-Retrieval Super-Essence. Shamanic Journeying & Soul-Retrieval    Gloxinia and Begonia
Assistance in the “sacred journeying”, where the shaman goes out and brings back parts of the soul that had split off as the result of trauma experiences.

Click to have a healing with Daly Pine, supporting the shift. Shifting    Daly Pine     Standing tall in the new land
(or state of consciousness). Provides support...... supporting and balancing the shift. For refugees, immigrants, etc., moving (or having moved) to a new land. Or, anyone undergoing a large shift in consciousness  (ie. a paradigm shift)

Click to have a healing with Dark Pink Rose, for allowing others to see the real you. Shyness and Hiding    Dark Pink Rose
No-one knows the real me.  Sitting in a darkened room,
afraid to open the door.... “I know who I am, but no-one
else knows”.  Helps to open up and trust,
allowing people to see who one really is.

Click to have a healing with Nicotiana alata, breaking the hold of tobacco. Smoking Addiction    Nicotiana alata
To free the hold that nicotine has on the addicted smoker (mental-emotional). Wanting to give up smoking, but feeling overwhelmed by the hold of nicotine.

Click to have a healing with Social Conventions. Social Conventions    Social Conventions
To help with all types of “social conventions” issues. For people who live within a straight-jacket of “What would the neighbors think?” Also for the other extreme of people who indulge in foolish behavior to demonstrate their freedom.

Click to have a healing with Pink Blossom, the essence for bringing spring at any time. Spring is Here    Pink Blossom   To help lift people
out of depression.  The fullness of spring.....
Spring can happen at any time.  Joyousness has no special season.  You may have a summer’s day in any moment.

Click to have a healing with Gazania, for leaping free and dancing and prancing. Stuck    Gazania    “The Dancing Gazelle”.
Lifts the spirits and frees the heart to dance lightly,
like the gazelle.... prancing and jumping.
Frees one to leap free of the beliefs of the past.

Click to have a healing with Violet Lavatera - to chase away those grey clouds. Subdued & Uncertain    Violet Lavatera
Subdued, uncertain.  Not sure where to go next.....
Fallen into a slump.  To chase away the grey clouds.....
and the sun lights your way.  (Not as heavy as depression.)

Click to have a healing with Violet & Yellow Salvia, bringing one gently back from heaven. Suicidal    Violet & Yellow Salvia
For all people who are feeling suicidal. To strengthen their life-force, and bring them gently back from Heaven. Not everyone who attempts suicide wants to die.

Click to have a healing with Potato Vine, the essence of Support. Support    Potato Vine    The hand behind the back.....
giving strength and support when the road feels rocky and
the legs feel unsteady.

Click to have a healing with California Poppy - Chop wood, carry water. Survival in Adversity    California Poppy
To help one survive, through the bleakest of situations. Just
like this flower survives in very poor soil with very little water. “Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water........”

Click to have a healing with Pink/Violet Bush, the sweetness essence. Sweetness    Dark Pink/Violet Bush
Sweetness issues. To help with the assimilation of sugar in one's diet, and..... To help in the assimilation of sweetness in one's life; where a person works hard at denying oneself happiness.

Click to have a healing with Tenacity Essence, getting back on that horse again! Tenacity    Tenacity Essence    When one feels like one is losing one's grip on life, feeling like withdrawing from life. To move a person through their repeated sense of failure in life - get back on the horse (the horse is being dragged - not walking.)

Click to have a healing with Red Rhododendron, for tiredness and fatigue. Tiredness and Fatigue    Red Rhododendron
For tiredness and fatigue of all types, from all causes.
Includes everyday acute weariness, chronic fatigue
syndrome, and also for insomnia.

Click to have a healing with Executive Burnout, Treadmill     Executive Burnout
Getting off the never-ending treadmill..... Releasing the compulsive/obsessive chasing after the trappings of “success”. For people who are jaded, tired, over-worked, and burnt out. This essence helps one to break through the illusion of chasing
after the unfulfillable dream.

Click to have a healing with Parahebe, allowing oneself to settle down. Women’s Busy-ness    Parahebe
For women who are busy, busy, busy, fussing around, cannot settle down. Fear of being still, and of being with themselves.

Click to have a healing with Beetroot, healing the legacy of war trauma. Warfare Post-Trauma    Beetroot
People of the war generation who have “gone underground”, having shut down, being unable to process the wartime trauma. Includes civilians affected by the war experience, and anyone
affected by any form of warfare-induced post-traumatic stress.

The above essences on this page are of a “general purpose” nature.

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