Flower Essences for Sexuality and Gender Issues
Here is a set of flower essences for issues of sexuality and gender.
All of humanity is obsessed by sex and sexuality, and these flowers bring to
us the potential to heal the various aspects of this obsession.
Sex and sexuality must be the most controversial, and the most misunderstood, issue that has ever been faced by humanity.
The flower essences in this following section deal with various aspects of sex and lovemaking in refreshingly direct ways, with particular emphasis upon the energetic aspects of physical lovemaking.
Many of the issues addressed by these essences are drawn from the work of Barry Long, and of Bernie Prior, and also from my many years of experientially working with these issues myself.
At the core of these sexuality issues, there are the following facts..
The nature of "love" is totally misunderstood by most of humanity, with emotional attachment and dependency usually mistakenly identified as "love".
Sexual love is often thought of as being somehow inferior to "divine love", when in fact, sexual love, practised in the manner that our bodies were actually designed to practise it (rather than in the debased way that most of humanity abuses sex), is a vitally important, and very beautiful, "spiritual practise" in its own right.
During physical sexual lovemaking, our bodies are designed to undergo a complex range of energetic processes. However, for almost everybody in our modern society, most of the high vibrational energies that are a necessary component of these energetic processes are blocked from undertaking their designed functions by the huge amount of gross emotional energy that saturates the bodies of both the man and the woman.
See the appropriate individual essences for the details of these energetic processes of lovemaking, and for details of how these essences can be used to help these processes.
The flower essences in this section address these issues, in a holistic, non-dualistic way, as described for each essence
Click on the name (or picture) of the flower, to go to a page
of information about that essence, including a large picture.....
Divine Sexual Love
Healing the perceived split between sexual love
and Divine Love.
A “new energy” essence, to help facilitate the healing
of the perceived split
between God's love and sexual love.
This perceived gulf between the supposed “pure” love of God,
“impure” love between man and woman is actually an
is deeply entrenched in the mass
psyche of humanity.
Valentine Heart Rose
The illusion of emotional attachment.
To help heal a “broken
heart” where a person
perceives that they have been hurt by love or by loving.
To help such a person to see through the illusion
of what passes for “love”
but is in reality emotional
attachment to the person or thing that is perceived
to be the
cause of the pain.
Healing the separation between men and women.
A “new energy” essence, to help transcend the illusion
of the duality paradigm,
as it is perceived in the relationships
between man and woman on planet Earth.
Enhancing and deepening the heart energy connection between
men and women.
A “new energy” essence, to help facilitate a stronger,
clearer heart connection,
with a more pure energy, based on the energy of true unconditional love.
To help woman and man to move on from the
paradigm based on
duality and karma, into
the “new energy”
paradigm of partnership and love.
Codependent Abusive Relationship
Dark Red Rose
For “women who love too much”
The abusive relationship, where she (or he) just cannot
walk away, because she is caught in the trap of
emotional dependency masquerading as love.
This essence helps her to finally break the chains of
delusion and to heal whatever it is inside her that
was holding her blind to the reality.
Little Girl Rose
To help all men see through the illusion of the
“sexual games” and to learn to love
woman for what she truly is,
ie. God/Goddess in human form.
To help men to step out of the cultural conditioning
regarding their sexuality,
and to see the truth of what it really is to be a man who
relates to woman in a balanced and healthy manner,
loving woman for
herself, without ulterior sexual motives
and with no expectation of what
he can “get” from her.
Because man has not accepted His own Divinity,
he cannot see the Divinity
in woman. This creates
a discontentment in her very soul and a
sadness so great that she wonders if she will ever
be loved in the way her
heart remembers as her birthright.
This essence helps all women to overcome whatever
blocks they may have to
the realisation of their own
Divinity, thus transforming from the discontented,
unhappy “sexual woman”,
into the whole and complete
Emotional Sexual Energy Release
Dissolving from the body of man and woman, the old,
sexual energy that has entrapped and
fascinated men and women for all of time.
Once this emotional sexual energy is released,
it makes room for the “Divine
Sexuality” to be
experienced, the “genuine tantra” of heart-centered Divine
This is the “lost key to happiness
and joy” for all humans.
The above essences are “new energy” essences, in that they
were all made very recently, since March 2002. These “new energy”
essences are fully in alignment with the changed energy of humanity in this new
The eight essences above comprise the “Sexuality and Gender Issues” Set of Essences.
Click here to buy the above set of Essences from our online store.
The following essences are somewhat “older”, in that they were first made
around 1998 to 1999, and are part of the New Millennium Essences “fourth-generation
main set” of essences, which act like a “bridge” between the “old
energy” of duality and the “new energy” of wholeness.....
These essences are not part of the “Sexuality and Gender Issues” Set of Essences,
but they may be ordered as individual essences.
Helping heal the hurts carried by men and women
since the beginning
of time (gender based).
Men hurting women, and women hurting men.
The pain of words that pierce the body like small arrows,
leaving the fabric of humanity scarred and afraid.
This flower essence is also supplied
as part of the
Practitioner's Set and the
Relationship Super-Essences Set.
To nourish the sacred inner marriage of a person's separate male and female parts,
for people who are serious about their spiritual progress.
For healing all levels of sexual abuse, including
For women and for men.
To help restore one's ability to stand proud and tall, look the world in the eye, and smile.
Sexual Stereotyped Roles
To help break through rigid sexual stereotyping
on all levels.
The man who has to have a pretty woman.
The stud mentality.
The woman who thinks she has be always available.
To eliminate toxic sexual attitudes that have
arisen since the sexually repressed influence
of the Victorian era.
The extremes of the continuum
repressed sexuality to sexual perversion.
This flower essence is also supplied
as part of the
Men's Issues Super-Essences Set.
If you would like to work with these Sexuality and Gender essences in the
physical form of bottles of essences, they are available from us as a
boxed set of eight essences, or you can purchase any of them as individual bottles.
All of these essences are supplied at stock strength, in the
“industry-standard” type brown glass bottles with glass
droppers, in 10 ml size (one third of an American fluid ounce).
For an explanation of what “stock strength” means,
please read this
explanation in our F.A.Q's section.
Click here to buy this set of Sexuality Essences from our online store.
Also note that these essences, (along with the other New Energy essences),
feature in our printed hard-copy
New Energy Essences Manual, which features beautiful color pictures
of the flowers. For details of this manual, or to place your order for your copy,
go to this page.
We also have a set of laminated cards that feature these essences,
along with our other New Energy essences.
For details of these cards, or to place your order for your set,
go to this page.
If you have any questions or comments, please
To go to the main index page of our “New Energy” essences, which includes these
Sexuality and Gender essences, and many more,
To go to a page of “Energy Anatomy” essences, for working with the body's
energy system, eg. the chakras and meridians,
To go to a page of “Body Energy” essences, for helping us in working
with energies that are dissolved in the body at the cellular level,